Should I date a porn star?

If the person is a perfect fit - then great. However, how would you feel if you got serious and saw him in films? Or, how would you feel if you dated him and knew he was shooting films on the side. I don’t think this would lead to a good relationship. Jealously and tough times will likely be ahead.

Yes, I agree with andrew 100%..... Date at your own risk......

P.S. there are lots of fish in the sea...

Wow girl, you have to go with your gut. I strongly believe that our gut is much smarter than our heart, and often more reasonable than our brains. Your gut is telling you what to do, I haven't met someone yet that hasn't ever said "I shouldn't/should have done such and such, I knew it, I just had a gut feeling"

Good luck, and much love for you!!

Staciodaviso's got some excellent points. You really need to think it through. You have to pay attention to what people do, not as much to what they say.

I knew a co-worker who dated a stripper. At first, he couldn't believe it - she was extremely beautiful & sexy. They dated for a few months, then he introduced her to his parents. He expected high-fives from his dad, thought his mom would be proud. Instead his parents were devastated. His mom sobbed, his dad expressed nothing but disappointment. This created a lot of conflict for him.

He decided to move in with the stripper. She got a job offer to strip for $500 / night in New York, so they moved to NYC from California. Soon after they were married. Then, about 3 months later, he came home early to find her in bed with somebody else. He had too much pride to forgive her, and divorced her. He was crushed and humiliated by the whole experience. Their relationship, from dating to divorce, lasted less than 2 years.

Your porn star boyfriend is probably a good guy, but I predict you'll have a lot of unforeseen issues if you pursue the relationship, as the person I once knew did.

I'm not believing what this alleged "porn-star" is running on you. The first thing you should do is demand to see three of his best films. That way you'll know if he's even worth a physical relationship. You'll also discover pretty fast whether or not it makes you jealous to see him having relations with another woman because if he really is what he claims, he'll keep doing what he does. On that point, it's also only a matter of time before he finds another woman he likes better than he likes you, so at best if you get with him it would probably be a very temporary relationship. Don't you want something better than this for yourself?

Let me just say that that there are plenty of great guys out there who are not Porn Starts for a living and if you are as great as I think you might be, you could probably do a lot better. Any guy who can find nothing better to do with his life than adult film really does not eserve a wonderful person like I think you may be. Just ask yourself if you can be okay with him coming home evryday and you know he has just cheated on you several times and you are going to be okay with that. If you can honostly say that doesn't bother you then maybe you were made for each other.

He is right, it is a job. The question you really need to ask yourself is if you can live with knowing he is having sex for money with other partners. People do not generally know that people who do these types of jobs seperate themselves both physicaly and more importantly emotionaly from there work. For them its just like a factory job. When they are done for the day they want the love, support, friendship and trust of a regular relationship. If you can't live with this, then please be honest with him as to why and maybe you will have found a great frind in the process.

I agree with Ruchele. Go with your gut feeling. If your second thoughths or doubls about dating this guy or don't have peace about it, then don't. Let peace be your guide. Doing the best thing now will keep you from having a heartache later.

Yolanda