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Submitted 180 days ago...

tngranny1

tngranny1

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Can a seventeen yr old leave home without the mothers consent?

My granddaughter cries and wants to move in with me, because her mother is so hateful to her and to the other three children. The father , my son , is in jail. She is not allowed to get a job, or even come to my house to spend the night. The mother allowed me to give my gd a car then when she thought she was coming to my house she took it away. The fourteen year old is never allowed to have family time with the rest of the family because he stays grounded for his grades. HELP!

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Answer 1 / 11 - Submitted 180 days ago...

NitroG

NitroG

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I feel for you, I really do. this is going to largely depend on your states regulations i can only provide my own expirence with this sorta thing and the best thing i can tell you if the child is not considered a legal adult (18 in most states some are as low as 16 that i know of) then the parent or legal guardian has the right to make any demands of the child outside of abuse. now abuse can be physical or emotional. if you are worried about an abuse situation it may be the hardest thing you have ever had to do but call CPS (child protective services) they can give you information about your rights and abilities. My grandma was a wonderful woman and cared much like it seems you do for all her grandkids, and i tell you she called CPS on her own son because he wasn't doing right by them. lemme tell you it straightened up his act in a hurry. in the end it will go one of two ways either it will cause the parents to rethink their moral compass and parenting decisions or they will decide that your attacking them. it's dangerous territory, it worked out in my family but there are no gurntees.

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Answer 2 / 11 - Submitted 180 days ago...

fairytale37

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Is her mother that cruel to her? If you don't know, try to witness it. Watch the whole scene. If her mother is really cruel to her, I think you can press charges against her for child abuse or cruelty. I think you should have her live with you if she's terrified of her own mother. I don't know much else what you can do, but you can just contact a police if you truly know what is going on.

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Answer 3 / 11 - Submitted 177 days ago...

Jeneferr

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In canada you can legally live on your own when you are 16

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Answer 4 / 11 - Submitted 176 days ago...

soccerlover7

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Just talk to the mother and ask her if she can stay with you for a little bit and have the one with the poor grades go to after school help and get her a tutorer

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Answer 5 / 11 - Submitted 156 days ago...

pcfulliv

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Try to talk to the mother. Maybe the two of you can establish rapport. You may even find that she is having problems getting the children to follow orders. It is hard raising children especially teens. You might want to talk nice to the mother; you might find out more info then what the kids are telling you. Kids, especially teens, tend to tell you what they want you to hear. Talk to the mom even if it hurts, and try to understand her. This may help you to find out the truth and maybe you can get in and give the children the help that they need. If this doesn't work you can try your state laws because you may be able to get visitation because you are the childrens paternal Grandmother.

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Answer 6 / 11 - Submitted 156 days ago...

kashia09

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To answer your question,
The only way a teenager could leave there home is if the state takes them out of their home.
Sometimes you can tell social services and they will do an investigation, and if they find proof of abuse then they will remove them from their home.....


Best of luck

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Answer 7 / 11 - Submitted 128 days ago...

jessica_42

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Hi, I'm Jessica and I am 17 years old and I dnt want to live with my mother either she is nut's...I have been trying to leave here sence I was 14 and all the cops ever told me is that I couldn't leave her until I was 18 which I tink is retarded. At my home we can' have sota or any kind of snacks all we can drink is water, the only thing I can tell you is to keep trying cuz that's what I am doing!

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Answer 8 / 11 - Submitted 128 days ago...

jessica_42

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But I'm pretty sure she could lve with you if you try hard enough.


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Answer 9 / 11 - Submitted 128 days ago...

tngranny1

tngranny1

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My ex-daughter-in-law tells my granddaughter she knows she would not be unhappy if she was with me but she is jealous and wants to have that kind of relationship with her herself. My granddaughter says her mother always blames everything on me even when I'm not around. She says why does mom do that? I told her I guess its because she hates your dad and I'm his mother.

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Answer 10 / 11 - Submitted 101 days ago...

Shauna-Nolan

Shauna-Nolan

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No you cant.. Well not in ireland anyways

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