I Can't Exactly Explain My Emotions. . .

Ever since I broke up with my boyfriend, I felt like I didn't have to hide anymore. I mean, I wasn't ashamed, but he wasn't the best boyfriend, but he was my first and he was still nice to me. Okay sorry, I'll post more, but ever since then, my emtions changed and all. I think I'm upset or something, but I don't want to be with him. I'll explain more, but I have to go real quick right now!

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Answer 1 / 3 - Submitted 52 days ago...

cajuncatt

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What you are feeling is natural. A breakup is like a death even if the break up is what you wanted because he was a bad boy friend. Your break up must still be new. Each day you will feel better. You are feeling alittle vunerable and lonely but that will pass. Try to spend some time with a good friend and go to a good movie, or shopping. It will keep your mind occupied on something else while healing the hurt you feel.

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Answer 2 / 3 - Submitted 52 days ago...

Englishmaven

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It is normal to have mixed feelings in a situation like this. You miss him, but you are glad not to be experiencing the stress of being with him. You may feel love for him, but know he is not good for you. These conflicting feelings are natural. You can love and hate a person at the same time, miss him but be glad he's gone, feel lonely without him, but better off without him. You did make the right decision, but you may wonder if it really was the right decision. That makes it even harder for you. We have all been in your shoes. It gets better. Try to stay positive and move on. Let yourself feel what you are feeling. Talk with someone you trust about it to vent and get it off your chest if you want to. Good luck!

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Answer 3 / 3 - Submitted 51 days ago...

fairytale37

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Ok, thank you both. I thought it was something that was not average. I mean, I've been like this for awhile and I don't know why. Yeah. . .I wonder if I made the right decsion, but I want him off my back.. ..and then he's nice and caring. . .and then he's a big fat jerk. . .Yeah, I guess I am better without him. Thank you so much for explaining this to me, I couldn't exactly do it myself. Thank you!

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