I'm 14 and i want to lose it but I'm to scared it will hurt what should i do my boy friend really wants me to do it with him but i don't know. oh he w

Idk how old your b/f is but it sounds like he is presuring you . i think at 14 you are to young i was 17 when i lost mine and wish i would have waited the guy i lost it to acted like he cared but after we did it i was really angry with myself but the decision is yours to make good luck hope you make the right choice for you

You're too young. You WILL regret it. Get a little self respect and self control and you will find the strength to resist.

14 is way to young. There will always be alot of pressure from guys, its in our genetic makeup to want to have sex. But that doesnt mean you should. Do you think you could handle getting pregnant? Anytime you have sex, even when you use all of the precautions available, you still can get pregnant.

If you dont want to and he is not respecting you, leave him. He is a jerk if he does not respect that you dont want to do it.
Chances are he is going to leave you after you do it anyway. And yes, it will hurt.

You should wait 14 is a very young age ...follow your 1st mind if he keeps asking you to do it that only means he only wants one thing from you ....chances are after you guys do it he might leave you ...so just hold on to it

You should be scared. It will definitely hurt physically and eventually it will hurt emotionally as well. What you need to do is drop this guy fast. At the place you are in life right now, you should not have to be worrying about such things. Your boyfriend is being selfish placing this pressure on you. If he truly loved and cared about your well-being, he would not be doing this. Do you really want to allow someone to use/abuse your body and your heart like that? I think not!

No, you shouldn't. If you were ready, you wouldn't be asking us. It's not about what he wants, it's about what you both want. You'll know when the time is right, and this isn't it. Wait it out, you'll be happy you did. If he leaves, fine, let him go. Then you'll know what it was that he really wanted all along.

You are only 14, try to think once, twice and million times..... your boyfriend is too young also for both of you to do that,.. if you lose it try to think about those disadvantages, if you get pregnant? what will happen next? can he give support to your baby at his young age? of course not... do you want to be a SINGLE MOM? of course not... so If I were you, don't get pressured because of your bf, if he still insist.. change him and don't try to think about him anymore..

I know there are some ..... that you can use when having..... but still, prevention is better than cure,..understand?

Absolutely NOT.

You are too young, and will live to regret "doing it".

Hi mania you are too young to lose your virginity. If your boy is forcing you then you should leave him.If he really loves you then he would understand your situation.