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The man I'm seeing is gettin very distant and says it's not me......
I've been seeing this guy for a few months now, but all of a sudden he is very distant. I think I might have put a damper in what could be a great relationship, although he says it's not me. He mentioned to me that he wanted me to be his girlfriend, but instead of jumpin at the chance I think I hurt his feelings. I told him that I had been single for a while (4yrs) and I needed him to be a little patient with me. But now I think he's straying, is there any hope left for us? I really do like him and he says he really likes me to. He also says that when I'm not around he misses me, but his actions show otherwise. What can/should I do?
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He could be frustrated. Everyone's rules are different, and he might have a rule that says "If I'm dating a girl for x months, and I ask her to be my GF and she says no, she rejected me" or something like that.
If you aren't ready to be an official Boyfriend Girlfriend couple, don't rush it. There are progression stages to dating. A good book I read years ago on this topic is " Mars and Venus on a Date" by John Gray. he talks about how there are 5 stages of dating, and for a relationship to work, you need to progress together through them in order. It sounds like he is one step ahead of you in this case. Give it more time, as a girl, it takes longer then it does for guys to fall for the other person.
And if you are ready to be an official BF GF couple. Just make a reference in public around other people, "yeah my boyfriend and i ...."
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