What about phone sex

MY MAN telling another woman he loves her?
I would say a text is written in black & white, he IS cheating!

Is he staying with you because he doesn't want to lose you and be alone, or because he loves you and would do anything for you? how do you feel about him?

That whole story sounds really fishy. he sounds like a jerk and doesn't really love you in an unconditional way.

if it was a friend, maybe they talk alot, but doing the weird txt messages for i love you see you in the am and what not doesn't sound right.

I'm sure you can tell a difference in his personality towards from before this began till now.

Call, or trace the number, it should be easy to figure out if it is a phone sex service or a real person. If it is simply a service, I'd let it go. It's no different from looking at porn! Laugh at the fact that he's probably talking to a really ugly, trashy chick! If I were you I'd find a good time to call him and do some dirty talking yourself, I'm sure it would get his attention! If you do find that he is having relationship with another woman, than perhaps a trial seperation? I know a lot of couples that have chose to stay togeather even after one or both had an affair. I'm not trying to justify cheating, but the reality is we can make that mistake, and still truly love our spouse. You first have to ask yourself who you are and what you can (or can't) live with. Nobody can answer that question for you.

I was always taught. never to cross that line although some times fine there is still a line. Do not touch and Do not talk to. Unless you want to find your ass on the sidewalk ....I like to sleep in my bed with my wife i don't cross that line. And i would never cheat

Its in black and white Hes cheating!

Cheating it sound to me why wont you ask her for you,r self and see want she have to say and if it the same number time atfer time then it more then phone sex is he still doing it and i don,t care if it was my man his butt is done because he should not be doing that peroid if his with you he should have respeact for you do something about it that why men get away with things now because we let it go and don,t do nothing about it girl do some background check in that

I agree with rich, call the number and find out if it is a phone sex line or a home/cell number for one person. But "I love you, see you in the AM" is a BIG red flag. I am so sorry you are going through this. Chances are the other women doesn't even know he is married and will be just as mad as you!

Is it what you think? if you accept that its okay then its okay if not okay then its not. i think if someone loves someone enough they can accept what makes the other happy...If you dont accept it and he refuses to stop then your relationship is bad.. A relationship works if you want it to work...

Yes i would think hes cheating. if he hides his phone or deletes his messages then i would say he is.

Well, in my opinion having phone sex with another woman is a half-offence. But the point here is that since he is trying to hide so many things from you, it proves that he is into things much more than just a phone-sex. I mean his habit of phone-sex with that lady may or may not be connected to the possibility of him having an actual real sexual relationship with that lady. So, phone-sex done by a husband/wife with another woman/man can not be termed as cheating if her/his other half was aware of such a thing existed. However, having phone-sex with someone else without the knowledge of his/her spouse is definitely CHEATING. So you should check if he is having more than a phone-sex with that lady.