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Submitted 300 days ago...
Is he staying with you because he doesn't want to lose you and be alone, or because he loves you and would do anything for you? how do you feel about him?
That whole story sounds really fishy. he sounds like a jerk and doesn't really love you in an unconditional way.
if it was a friend, maybe they talk alot, but doing the weird txt messages for i love you see you in the am and what not doesn't sound right.
I'm sure you can tell a difference in his personality towards from before this began till now.
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Submitted 295 days ago...
Call, or trace the number, it should be easy to figure out if it is a phone sex service or a real person. If it is simply a service, I'd let it go. It's no different from looking at porn! Laugh at the fact that he's probably talking to a really ugly, trashy chick! If I were you I'd find a good time to call him and do some dirty talking yourself, I'm sure it would get his attention! If you do find that he is having relationship with another woman, than perhaps a trial seperation? I know a lot of couples that have chose to stay togeather even after one or both had an affair. I'm not trying to justify cheating, but the reality is we can make that mistake, and still truly love our spouse. You first have to ask yourself who you are and what you can (or can't) live with. Nobody can answer that question for you.
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Submitted 282 days ago...
Cheating it sound to me why wont you ask her for you,r self and see want she have to say and if it the same number time atfer time then it more then phone sex is he still doing it and i don,t care if it was my man his butt is done because he should not be doing that peroid if his with you he should have respeact for you do something about it that why men get away with things now because we let it go and don,t do nothing about it girl do some background check in that
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Submitted 282 days ago...
I agree with rich, call the number and find out if it is a phone sex line or a home/cell number for one person. But "I love you, see you in the AM" is a BIG red flag. I am so sorry you are going through this. Chances are the other women doesn't even know he is married and will be just as mad as you!
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Submitted 234 days ago...
Is it what you think? if you accept that its okay then its okay if not okay then its not. i think if someone loves someone enough they can accept what makes the other happy...If you dont accept it and he refuses to stop then your relationship is bad.. A relationship works if you want it to work...
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