WHAT AM I TO DO

1'M 47, 6 CHILDREN 2ND MARRIAGE WHICH MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN GONE FOR 2 YRS, SAID HE WAS TIRED OF PAYING BILLS AND B-CAUSE OF ME BEING A MOTHER TO MY CHILDREN COMING FROM SOUTH CENTRAL TO HAVE RAISED DECEANT CHILDREN. RESPECTFUL ONES 5 BOYS 1 DAUGHTER. LEFT IN THE WINTER NO GAS OR HEAT NOT TO MENTION I HAVE A DISIBILITY. THHEN THER IS HUSBAND #1 WHO LEFT FOR THE SAME REASON MY KIDS WHICH 5 OF THE 6 ARE HIS. WITH EVERYTHINGE GONING ON WITH THE KIDS NOW DAYS U NEED TO BE INVOLVED IN THEIR EVEYDAY ACTIVITIES. WITHOUT THE HELP OF #1 I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD HAVE DONE WITHOUT HIM, THE PROBLEM IS AFTER 10YRS HE WANTS HIS FAMILY BACK. I DON'T FEEL THE WAY I DID ABOUT HIM 10YRS AGO, I CARE ,I LOVE HIM AS A PERSON BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM. HUBSAND #2 HAS SLEPT WITH X-WIFE. BEEN

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Jodi-Mesa

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Sounds like you should get some visitation set up and child support for father #1, but if you don't love him, don't go back with him. Husband #2 same - get a divorce, set up child support. Focus on your kids, you sound like a loving mother. Maybe husband #3 will come along - third ones a charm.

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