Wow - that is a good question. From your story it sounds like she is looking for an excuse to break this relationship with you off. Are you a man? Have you two ever been romantically involved. Maybe she is seeing someone who is possessive and doesn't like her seeing you and so she was looking for an excuse to make you the bad guy so she doesn't have to admit to herself that she is dating a jerk.
If there is nothing romantic and you are just friends, maybe you really did say something that offended her and you just don't know it. If that is the case go to her and tell her honestly, I value your friendship and if I've said something to hurt or offend you I'm sorry. Be a good listener as there may be something going on in her life. You never know.
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What happened when a friend stops calling?
I have a lady friend who was apparently upset the 23rd of Nov. I called her on her cell while she was at work and was getting ready to get off around 7 p.m. I asked what her plans were for the wekend and she said that she has some work to complete. I joked that you work too hard meaning her works too much and she shot back that you don't know how hard I work so you don't know. For some reason I apologized and and see told me if I wanted to talk to her this was going to be the only good time I would be able to do it. I said I would call her back soon and she proceeded to hang up. Usually we would talk to each other later on, but it did not happen. I am begining to think that she has got someone else in her life romantically. Why won't she return my call or reply back to my ema
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Submitted 366 days ago...
I'm with Jodi, is this a friendship or a relationship or wanna be relationship?
I'm guessing it is more of a friendship. And she sounds like she is busy, maybe doesn't have time for you. Are you two going in different directions in life? Do you two hang out alot in person, or just talk on the phone.
If she isn't returning phone calls, perhaps you can send her an email instead, or hit her up with any IM service she uses. Otherwise, you could try and keep in contact with Myspace.com or Facebook.com if she uses either of those.
If you care to add anything else, we could see if it would alter the advice we have for you. Good luck with it.
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Submitted 366 days ago...
Both of your answers were kinda what I expected. I don't think she is dating someone who is abusive because she is very cautious. If she is taht busy, why doesn't she just call and let me know, we have always had a open line of communication. As far as going in different directions, I moved to another state, but that has not stopped us from calling or texting one another. Maybe she got tired of this and wants something else. If that is the case, just lret me know. I told her that in the email to her. I don't get it. She has never been the one not to let someone know how she feels especially since we started this she said I don't want to play games. By the way I am a man.
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Submitted 366 days ago...
People can change over time. Often, for no reason at all. Like I have ex girlfriends that things went sour with and I still have no idea exactly why or what set them off. Realizing that you can't control what other people do or think of you is a good first step in working through situations like this. Maybe in time, she will respond back, when she is ready.
Just don't live your life waiting for that day, it may never come. The world has plenty of people in it.
Thanks for letting us know how you fell about this.
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