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Submitted 357 days ago...

BBAPR34

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WHAT'S GOING ON WITH MY HUSBAND

SINCE JUNE WERE SEPARATED CAUSE I HAVE TO GET STRAIGHT SOME SITUATIONS OF HEALTH, ECONOMIC AND CHILDRENS, BUT HE SAID THAT THE LONELINESS MAKE MIM GET ANOTHER WOMAN WHICH SHE'S MARRIED WITH PLANS OF GET DIVORCE, WHAT I DON'T GET IS, THAT HE SAID HE LOVE ME AND MISS ME BUT TREAT ME WITH INDIFERENCE, HARDLY WE SPEAK BY PHONE. ANYWAY, AS I SEE THIS IS OVER BUT HE CAN'T BE MORE THAN 24 HOURS TO CALL OR TEXT WITH ANY EXCUSE WHICH OBVIOUSLY ALWAYS END UP IN A FIGHT. BY THE WAY IS NO WAY I'LL GO BACK WHERE HE LIVES NOT BY CHOICE BUT MY CHILDRENS LIVES HERE WITH THEIR FATHER AND I WANT TO BE CLOSE AT THEM.

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Submitted 357 days ago...

Jodi-Mesa

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This is a classic case (from your side of the story) of control. Your husband wants to have his cake and eat it to. He can have his new girlfriend and not only justify to himself but further project guilt on you by saying he needs her because you are so far away. Meh!

If you really see this as over, you need to make the decision to clearly communicate that and set boundaries, emotional and physical then really stick to them. Tell him that it isn't ok to call and say those things because it makes you upset or whatever the case may be. Be tactful and direct.

That way you have control of your situation and he has control of his which is where healing can take place and you both can move on.

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Submitted 217 days ago...

fluffin

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I agree with Jodi-Mesa and ya know if your going through health issue he is your hubby and he should be there for you not making you more upset he sounds very selfish and seems like he only care about what is best for him. Good luck on your health and dont let this guy bring you down.

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Submitted 54 days ago...

phonefan445

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I agree with you but i say that you just divorce him and move on with life

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