Which one!?!

You need to grow up. he is your friend and what ever happens that's it. maybe you have somethings that were left to be settled. sort it out before you get in a relationship with the other guy otherwise it's going to get messy.

But if your ex just likes you as friend then you can stay with your bf. and remember dont break your bfs heart.... Love him as he loves you

It's possible that your X uses you in a sense because he knows that you will always be there. You probably are aware that he knows how you feel about him, but he has the power in a sense. I"m not saying that he abuses it, because he may not even know what he's doing. It seems however, that what you had with your X isn't present in your current relationship and that if you knew your X would have you back, you would indeed return to what you previously had. If that's the case, then you may want to consider putting the brakes on with your boyfriend. You never want to cultivate a relationship until you are content without one. "Needing" companionship will likely land you in a relationship that is less than healthy. Be patient, wait for a man who will make you feel like your X did or better. Don't settle in other words.

This must be though for you.The good thing is that you like your new boyfriend.Another good thing :your ex likes You as a friend.The third: the romances that never happen are the most beautiful ones,because there is nothing to ruin them,they are created in your memory, how you would imagine them ,and stay like that.Maybe one day your ex will find you irresistible again and ask you out.Boys need to explore with girls,some of them are into dating many, before they choose one.It's like going to a field of beautiful wildflowers and picking only ONE flower.He will come around, just give him time.He likes you.You like him.There is a spark! After all his playing,if he does not connect with anyone,he will come back to you.Maybe you wont be interested then...Just be happy,you are not heartbroken at least,you can enjoy having fun with boys.He will be yours,if you really want that.