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?WHY WHEN I ASKED HOW MANY TIMES YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED SHE DID NOT TELL ME THE TRUTH??DOES THIS MEAN ANYTHING..

I DID NOT FIND OUT TILL WE WERE ABOUT TO BE MARRIED SHE WAS MARRIED AT 15 FOR A SHORT WHIRE..WHEN I ASKED IF SHE HAD EVER BEEN MAARARIED SHE SAID ONCE FOR TWENTY YEARS..SINCE WE HAVE BEEN MARIIED IN THE COURT HOUSE RECORDS I FOUND TWO MORE..WE WILL BE MARRED TWO YEARS IN FEB ? SHOULD I LET THIS BOTHER ME..OR DID SHE THINK I WOULD HAVE RUN THE OTHER WAY.. I KNOW SHE HAS BEEN IN SEVERALL RELATAIONSHIP OVER THE YEARS ONE OF 5 YEARS.

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Submitted 346 days ago...

Ruchele

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She probably thought you would have ran screeming if you had known the truth, and then she is stuck in the lie. I would bet this eats at her all the time, but she doesn't know how you will react if she tells you the truth. I would suggest letting her know that you know in a loving way, "honey I know you lied to me about how many times you were married, but It doesn't change how much I love you, did you think I wouldn't love you if I knew?" this gives her a non combative opportunity to explaine.

Good luck

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Submitted 346 days ago...

Mtnrescue

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You might also check and see how many of her ex husbands are still alive. Ever seen "So I Married and Axe Murderer"?

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Submitted 346 days ago...

Jodi-Mesa

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I agree - you should defiantly confront the issue of the lie like Ruchele said.

Another thing that you should address is the underlying issue and since she tried to hide this from you, you can expect her to be defensive about the subject. Find out if she has commitment issues or if she goes after a certain type of man. Listen to what she has to say. Sometimes the patterns in life can tell you a lot about a person.

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Submitted 346 days ago...

cmcgowan

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You should trust enough in yourself to ask the question and verify the other marriages where to your spouse. What if there is another person with the same name?

If it is her, there needs to be some reason for not telling the truth-fear, embarrassment. I would suggest you both go to some counseling or discuss with your minister to help with this issue. You need to be able to accept the truth and be able to move forward. Either way, if you discuss it or bury it can you understand and open your heart to love her with such a mistake? Does she lie about other things-this could be a serious problem.

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