When you filed a joint return you had to put down a name and SSN. If it was a husband and you're divorced, have children, then you are head of household. If you will living with someone and used their SSN as a spouse its okay if your state recognizes common law marriages, if not you have to file an amended return. One of the items the IRS computer system checks is the SSN for a few things: Is it a legit number, is the number's owner alive or dead, had activity on the number to generate a W2 or 1099. It is not unusual for the IRS to be about four years behind but they will check eerything on a return. The instructions on the 1040 tell you what your filing status is, just read and answer their questions.



