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Submitted 241 days ago...

LonelyGrl51

LonelyGrl51

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Do he really love me?

I Am 16 Yrs Old I Know I Am Young ,But Think I Am In Love. I Would Do Anything For Him. But Its Only A Coupler Thing That Got Me Thinkink Well He Have A car Very Attractive And He Make Me Hppy But At The Same Time I Get Thing Like He Cheating On U Girl Playing On My Phone Thats Not Lady Like I Know That He Loves Me And I Love Him Too. But It Just Hurt Me To My Heart To Know That He Is probably Cheating On Me. I Am From New Orleans La, And U Know After Katrina Alot Of Peoples Is Moving Back So I Just Fund out That His Ex Girlfriend Have Just Moved Back and I Was Wondering Is They Back Messsing Around I Hope Not But I Think He Was In Love wit Her But At The same Time He Tell Me He Love Me And I believe Him ANd I Would Never Turn My Back On Her. And He Keep Asking Me Question Like I Am Cheating On Him And I Keep Sayong To My self That He Must Want Me To Cheat On Him But I Am Not I Want to Trust Him with All My Heart I Have Never Felt Like This Before With A boy But Him. He Was My First We Have Been Together For About a 1yr. He IS Everthing I Wanted In A Boi. Dont Get Me Wrong I Am A Very Attractive Female And Alot Of Boys Stop An dTry To Talk To Me But I Turn Them Down cause I Love My Boy. I Dont Know What I Going To Do Cause I Know That He Love Me And I Also Know That He Have Female friends Is Something Wrong With That Do You Think Im Dumb for Still Holding On with Him?????

 
 
 
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Submitted 239 days ago...

Missy1990

Missy1990

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Well if he is really doing all those things people says that he is doing then he is not worth your time, if hes talking to other girls then you need to talk to him tell him how you feel and clear the air, you never know, the things people say may not be the truth.

 

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Submitted 234 days ago...

TOMMY54

TOMMY54

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It all comes down to "do you trust the boy" its that simple sit down and think about it. Love and trust are two different things.If you dont trust him then you are wasting your time.

 

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Submitted 234 days ago...

grandmother

grandmother

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A healthy, loving relationship is built on trust. If you don't have that, then it's time to move on. You are young and it's understood that most teenagers yearn to be in a relationship. That's all part of growing up. But do try to focus more on yourself right now to recognize and acknowledge your inner-beauty and self worth. Love yourself enough to never settle for any boy who isn't trustworthy and has no regard for your feelings. No matter how good looking or popular he is or what kind of car he drives, etc., he's not worth the time of day if he doesn't cherish you and care enough for you not to hurt you. If you make a concentrated effort to be true to yourself in this way, you will learn to be more selective about what boys are right for you and your happiness.

 

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Submitted 222 days ago...

Scheele492

Scheele492

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Idk but ex girlfriends are the easiest to get back with usually... and an ex is more likely to have sex easier than the current girl and some random so i'd say yea he's pry playing the field all guys do i myself used to til i found an angel that i would do anything for

 

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Submitted 222 days ago...

briankelly

briankelly

Beginner (11)

Read a book

 

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Submitted 222 days ago...

RunnerGuy

RunnerGuy

Contributor (176)

That is all natural and part of the dating and relationship experiences of growing up

if it is meant to be, it will happen

if this boy doesn't work out, there are plenty of other boys out there to date and have relationships with

 

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Submitted 207 days ago...

Theseus159

Theseus159

Beginner (19)

Yes girl, your young. But I don't think your dumb! If your having these feelings of doubt, there is a reason to be having them. How old is he? You say he asks you if your cheating on him, My experience has been, If he is overly jealous and needs to know every move your making and who your with at all times, and accuses you of going out on him,,,,, then HE is probably the one cheating and trying to ease his own guilty mind. Sit down and make a list of reasons you like him, and on the other side of the paper list the reasons you don't trust him. See which list is longer. Trust is the basis for a relationship and at 16, you are going to get your heart broken several times. YOU WILL LIVE AND LIFE WILL GO ON! That is how you learn and when your mature enough and really ready for a long term relationship, God will send you the man! Most guys at 16 -25 aren't ready to be with one gal forever anyway. Don't settle. But please remember one thing, There is only one of you in this world and you only have ONE FIRST TIME to make love. Don't waste it on a guy that most likely is just looking to score anyway. It is not as important to the guy as it is to us women. Trust yourself and your own instincts and you will do what you need to do. Good Luck and stay strong. Hold your head up.

 

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Submitted 116 days ago...

tomturkey

tomturkey

Brain (2,485)

Your are way to young to even begin to have to worry about a boy cheating on you. I am surprized you have been together for a year. Fifthteen was also to young to get involved with a boy. Like you said you are beautifull you need to take your time,dating is one thing but you have a life time ahead of you. I hope your still in school. Even if he is not cheating you should back off a little. If you don't completely trust him then you have n't an honest relationship anyways. And if he is anything like most guys his age they usally want to acuse you of what they are doing or want to do. This relationship is not going to last because of your age and the lack of trust. Enjoy all you can in life like school ect while your young plenty of time for love later. Becarefull so many teens get hurt and get caught up in siturations like teen peg.

 

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Submitted 101 days ago...

Fakery

Fakery

Brain (2,176)

It is more important to be having fun right now. if he loves you great. use this time to learn and grow

 
 

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