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Crzy4TreeHil

Crzy4TreeHil

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How do I say "no"?

Twice this week I've found myself in situations where I haven't had the courage to say "No." The first time was with my friend Christopherr, who is a complete man whore. I could tell he wanted to hook up with me, and I let him, despite the fact that I didn't want to at all. The second time was last night with my friend Anthony. He was all over me and touching me in ways that I definetly did not like, but again, I was too nervous to say just say, "No." I don't want this to happen again. Please help!

 
 
 
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Submitted 69 days ago...

helpmeplease

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If you dont want to, you should say no. Don't just do it because you are afraid to say no. Plus if you do say know they will respect you and they all will want you more. If you keep giving in then they will just think of you in that way, and you are worth more than that. You are special and should be treated that way, by someone who cares . You deserve better for yourself. Good Luck You are worth more than that! Dont give in to those guys!

 

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Submitted 68 days ago...

ldsch

ldsch

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Stop trying to make us believe you didn't want to do what you did. You placed yourself in the situation because you crave the attention you got from these guys. You obviously knew it would happen and you went along with it anyway.

That's because you have doubts about yourself and it makes you feel better when somebody shows you attention, even when it's the type of attention that is degrading and potentially harmful. Keep this up and you'll be asking us in a few months why you have oozing sores in certain areas of your anatomy.

It doesn't take "courage" to say no, it only takes self-pride and two vocalized letters - N O .

With a little common sense behavior you wouldn't even end up in situations where you need to say NO. Grow up.

 

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Submitted 44 days ago...

Fakery

Fakery

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You just have to say no, and realize that they might get upset at you.

if your self worth would be better for standing up to them, then do it. Also, talk with them about it when you aren't in that situation in the moment. If you talk about it in advance with them and let them know the rules, they may follow them.

 

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Submitted 44 days ago...

jim5456

jim5456

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It time to get new friends these just want to use you ===dig a little deeper to find that NO NO NO and when you find that NO you will be able to take out the trash

 

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Submitted 43 days ago...

tomturkey

tomturkey

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You are right it is wrong. There could be alot of reasons why you can't say no. You may be insercure and feel that by saying no that they may not want to come around. You want a friend not a lover,and what their doing is wrong,although they probary just don't care. It is not you it is just that they are wanting one thing and they don't care who where or when. That is not the type of people that you need to be around. You need to stay away from them and you need to talk to someone that you do trust. a family member your mom ect. You might even need some counciling,but what I do know is that your trying to reach out to someone to help you. You need to work on your self esteem and you need to know that you are a person with feeligs and you deserve only the best. You can have that just seek some counciling,don't put yourself though this. It may be hard but you can do it.

 

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Crzy4TreeHil

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Thank you

 
 

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