~IM hurting inside~!!!!!!!

Hang out with your friends and keep yourdelf busy until you get over this guy, start dating other people and forget it unless u and he both want to reconcile keeping ur mind off him is the best thing to do

Good for you, I think you will be happier in the long run.

as far as how to get over him, it will take time. it could take a month or more. just hang out with your friends, and take the time you need for yourself, to let your heart heal and then be ready to open it up to the next amazing guy that walks into your life.

When i broke up with the guy that i fell in love with, i never got over him, until i got back with him and learned i didnt love him, i just love the fact that he treated me like a humanbeing, but in away i still love him. Maybe if you talk to this guy you guys and work things out and be best of friends thats what i did, and me and that guy are not together but you cant get us apart, and yeah that pain will never go away, until you come to the realization you can make it go away, by making a better side to the story.

Hold your head high & think how lucky you r to be rid of him & How glad you r some one else gets to put up with him now. Sit down & ask yourself if you really loved him, or was he just always there? Sometimes most of the hurt is becuz of embarassment, trust me, your friends probably all thought him a jerk ,too. Have fun ! ( It is easier for me to tell ya that than it actually is to do, I know the feeling).
I was more embarrassed.

You have to completely unattach yourself from him. Don't go to places where he will be at and if you have friends in common ask you friends not to discuss him while you are around.

Get with some friends who will help take your mind off of this. Within a month you will start feeling better and realize what you did was for the best. After you get over him you will feel better and back to normal and when you are ready to start dating other people he won't have any affect on you anymore.

The void left behind is never easy to fill again. BUT IT DOES HAPPEN.
Try this...unfortunately for anything to work, it will require effort from you. Make a list of the things you like to do. Remember...things you...not him...things you like to do. Try to analyze what specific areas or arena your like lay at. Having been through this myself I found I like to draw, sketch, scribling, reading science magazines....I like detailed stuff. I found that I had a box of stamps since my childhood...well, before I knew it, I had a new hobby...stamp collecting...you will not believe how detailed it can get and how complicated it can be. Was it easy? NO.
Remember for you to get a positive result from anything...it will require positive action from you.
Negative only results in negative.
You obvisously have a good head on your shoulder....find out where your talents are...occupy your time on whatever is your fancy. Become an expert and something else.
If he is doing things to hurt you...dont let it continue. You can do a 180 and press on....come on now...you can do it!

You did the right thing to break up it sounds like you care more than he does. He is just playing mind games and you don't need that. Don't let him know it bothers you, that a bother him more than it bothers you. He needs to grow up. You need an honest relationship with some one that you can respect and trust sometimes it takes time but when it comes it is worth it.

Ummm..whwre you from..im recently single..ill help you

The best thing you can do is not do anything at all. no matter how bad it hurts you just need to stay strong and keep your pride. Smile when you see him, but don't try playing head games with him . If he's trying to make you jealous than that must tell you something right? Otherwise he would try his hardest to keep his life a secret from you if he didnt care. Best thing to do is stay busy and stay with good friends

The best thing you can do is not do anything at all. no matter how bad it hurts you just need to stay strong and keep your pride. Smile when you see him, but don't try playing head games with him . If he's trying to make you jealous than that must tell you something right? Otherwise he would try his hardest to keep his life a secret from you if he didnt care. Best thing to do is stay busy and stay with good friends