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Submitted 344 days ago...

sammie204

sammie204

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My mom and dad wont stop fighting!!!

My dad likes this girl and my mom likes this guy and i dont like that they should be together and i cant see it any other way and im a kid what am i supossed to do and i dont like the fact they might be intrested in somebody eles they were together for 18 years was it me was is my sister what made this the way it is and i dont like it!!!!!

 
 
 
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Submitted 344 days ago...

Jodi-Mesa

Jodi-Mesa

Brain (2,795)

That's such a hard thing to go through. I know I always liked to think that my parents where perfect, but when you watch them go through something like that, sometimes you realize that they are just people who fight like you and your friends. Remember that they are human and going through a lot as well. See if you can find a friend to talk to who has been through a divorce with their parents as well. Good luck and tough times can only make you stronger.

 

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Submitted 343 days ago...

Missy1990

Missy1990

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Kiddo, dont worrie everyone likes someone else no matter what, you cant let it get to you untill it is way out of control. Its not your fight. They will work things out. the best thing you can do is be there when they are to be a good example for your little sister (and brother if you have one). Through that you can show your parents that they are being immature and like jodi said become stronger emotionaly and have a better and diffrent prospective on things. GOOD LUCK KIDDO=]]

 

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Submitted 334 days ago...

qter_ashley

qter_ashley

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My mom and dad got devorced when i wads 10 i am now 11
my mom liked someone after they split but my dad didnt
ummm
this may cause family problems
but
i think they need to c other people

 

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Submitted 334 days ago...

fry_brenna

fry_brenna

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Hey just remember it wasn't ur falt maybe they just didn't get along but dont worry about them they will find some one and be happy if it was made to be but if not then they will get back together if they were made to be together love will find a way but u still have a mom and dad who love you no diffrent then any one else i no they love you very much. by the way my perants fight alot to but i understand that they are just working it out think about if u and ur brother fight it is exactly the same. that is if u have a brother. i hope that helps

 

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Submitted 165 days ago...

tomturkey

tomturkey

Brain (2,691)

This must be very hard on you. Your parents need to have a talk and discuss their feelings however you can't do anything about them. You might want to tell them both you would like to talk to them together and tell them that their fighting is bothering you. That might help them to pull their self together and see what their doing to you as well as to their self. Eighteen years is an awfull long time to be married and then to see them like this is hard. But I can assure you that what their going though has nothing to do with you. Their probarly not aware of how you feel. I am sure after talking to them you will feel better. As for them they will have to work this out between them.

 

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Submitted 157 days ago...

cutiepie94

cutiepie94

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I went throught th same thing. My dad liked some girl and I cried and cried. They didn't end up getting divorced so maybe they will find a way around this mess. Remember, time heals, so if something does end up happening, you will find a way through this, you have to be strong.

 

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Submitted 87 days ago...

Skoolie

Skoolie

Brain (2,107)

Awwww sweetie. The first thing you can do is to make sure NOT to blame yourself. You did nothing wrong.

the second thing you can do is to sit your parents down and explain to them how this makes you feel. They will realize that it is affecting you and hopefully make the changes nessisary to make it a happier home life for you.

 

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Submitted 78 days ago...

Rematch322

Rematch322

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NO, your not the reason. Adults just do really stupid things, and then they do things to hurt each other. Your mom and dad just need to get along and not date anyone else until you and your sister are grown. Tell them that Divorce tears apart familes and harms children. When they had you and yours sister, that was a commitment they chose to commit to for 18 years. Be strong! It's not fair that you have to grow up way to soon to deal with these issues, stuff that you shouldn't even have to know about yet. You will be ok.

 
 

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