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Submitted 185 days ago...

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My new boyfriend.

My new boyfriend has only had 3 girlfriends because his first one was stolen by his brother and after that he was really sad and he stoped dateing for a while now i am his third and he done kno what to do so it seems to other ppl that we aer just friends... his brother told me all of this but the really bad thing is i like his brother more than him but his brother thinks we are of on age difference and i never hasd a chance with him. a while back when i had started going out with him and i was on vacation another guy kissed me and i couldnt tell him that and there is no way i will. but scince that ive feel bad around him....any help here?

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Submitted 185 days ago...

ldsch

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Maybe you should concentrate a little more on your schoolwork than your supposed boyfriends. You seem to be water way over your head on this one. When a girl has a "real" relationship with any boyfriend, she does not talk about it with other people (well, maybe with her best girlfriend).

the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is supposed to be a private thing. If your supposed boyfriend doesn't want to let other people know about this supposed friendship, that means he is not really your boyfriend at all. He is just . . . a friend.

Stop trying so hard to have a "boyfriend" right now and grow up a little. I promise you this all gets easier, the older you become.

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Submitted 185 days ago...

Fakery

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Just have fun

you are young enough that you can just have fun dating and having boy friends and girl friends.

think of this as practice for when you are older

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Submitted 181 days ago...

qter_ashley

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Ummm schools out ok? and i dont want ur opinion on how i need to focus on my schoolwork i want u to help me with my problem

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Submitted 181 days ago...

qter_ashley

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Im not trying HARD this just came along

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Submitted 181 days ago...

qter_ashley

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O and he never said he doesnt want ppl to kno we go together he acctully wants everyone to kno

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Submitted 181 days ago...

qter_ashley

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Ugh yall are makeing it worse! i may be young but im so mature for my age its like im not even as young as i am...u guys are making horrible on me! ugh! gosh now i feel terrible

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Submitted 180 days ago...

beautifulgrl

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Drama is just part of being a girl. I was lucky enough to have friends, who like me, weren't into the whole drama craze. Some girls feed off drama. Its literally what they live for. They love to be a part of it, and usually they love to start it. It sounds like this whole drama your going through right now is really stressing you out, though. So, I'm going to give some good advice.

First of all, it doesn't matter if people think your "just friends". Who cares what everyone else thinks? Life is so much more stress free when a person learns not to care what others think.

I can totally relate falling for another boy, but still liking another. But, the reality to this is that more than one persons going to end up getting hurt in this situation. If you have feelings for another guy, than the your current relationship probably isn't going to go any farther. It'd be best to move on.

And, in order to get rid of the guilt you feel around this guy, your going to have to tell him the truth. Just tell him about the kiss. Its defaintly not going to be easy, but thats what needs to be done, because then you won't feel guilty anymore. And, he'll either forgive you, or move on.

Trust me when I say that there's going to be alot of boys come in and out of your life. But, only one of those boys is going to be the "one". No middle school relationship is going to last forever, and no highschool relationship (rarely) lasts forever. Dating should be a fun, no drama, no stress thing to do.

GOOD LUCK ashley,

Taylor

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Submitted 180 days ago...

qter_ashley

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Well the guilts gone me and andrew still date but i dont have guilt anymore cause i dnt have feelings for the guy qwho kissed me i never did i just needed time to get over it thats all and i dont like his brother hes just real close to me sorta like a older brother to me. me ans=d andrew are happy with each other now i just never told him cause ethier her would want to kick the guy's ass or get the wrong idea and break up with me and neither of them can happen

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Submitted 180 days ago...

qter_ashley

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I like this one cuse she doesnt give her opinon on if she thinks i should b dating or not cause and guess what andrew is totally acting liike a real boyfriend now the other day (in front of all my friends) he held my hand and i didnt have to do anything

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