What di i do when my friends pick on my sister???

Hi, this is Missy, I am Ruchele's daughter. something you can do to tell your friends that what they are doing is not okay is just tell them that you don't like it when they say your little sister is what ever name it is they call her. Also you can avoid sitting with them and sit more with your little sister, that will also give them the aspect of you love your little sister no matter what and she is always going to be there, not them. Y ou have an obligation to your little sister not your friends to the extent that you do for her, spending moret ime with her and less time with them will also show that you love her and dont really like it when they call hr names or pick on her. But the best thing to do as i said is to just talk to them, in a calm matter so a fight does not end up happening between you and that friend.

I let my daughter answer this for you because it is something she has had to deal with on the bus with her little sister, so she would have more insite. ;)

Hi, this is Missy, I am Ruchele's daughter. something you can do to tell your friends that what they are doing is not okay is just tell them that you don't like it when they say your little sister is what ever name it is they call her. Also you can avoid sitting with them and sit more with your little sister, that will also give them the aspect of you love your little sister no matter what and she is always going to be there, not them. Y ou have an obligation to your little sister not your friends to the extent that you do for her, spending moret ime with her and less time with them will also show that you love her and dont really like it when they call hr names or pick on her. But the best thing to do as i said is to just talk to them, in a calm matter so a fight does not end up happening between you and that friend.

Thats awesome Ruchele! So honestly is she smarter than you or as smart as you??? lol. My kids seem to be smarter than me thats why I ask.

Yeah, sometimes she out wits me LOL

Glad I'm not the only one...

Thats because she doesnt realize that i am even typing this at this very moment

Lol - Don't be ashamed - I get out witted by my 8-month-old. lol

You need to put your foot down. They are your friends and I'm sure if you tell them it is enough they will listen. And if not they obviously don't care about either you or your sister.

HEY doll. All right, i know exactly what your going through. My little sister is extreamly hyper, has a speach problem, and a condition that makes her teeth grow spaced apart {but this can be fixed with surgery soon} so, as you can imagine...she gets teased. She's a really cute kid, actually, but she gets picked on by older kids. So here's my advice on how to handle the situation:

Bullying is a big problem. It can make kids feel hurt, scared, sick, lonely, embarrassed and sad.

Some bullies are looking for attention. They might think bullying is a way to be popular or to get what they want. Most bullies are trying to make themselves feel more important. When they pick on someone else, it can make them feel big and powerful.

Some bullies come from families where everyone is angry and shouting all the time. They may think that being angry, calling names, and pushing people around is a normal way to act. Some bullies are copying what they've seen someone else do. Some have been bullied themselves.

Sometimes bullies know that what they are doing or saying hurts other people. But other bullies may not really know how hurtful their actions can be. Most bullies don't understand or care about the feelings of others.

Bullies often pick on someone they think they can have power over. They might pick on kids who get upset easily or who have trouble sticking up for themselves. Getting a big reaction out of someone can make bullies feel like they have the power they want. Sometimes bullies pick on someone who is smarter than they are or different from them in some way. Sometimes bullies just pick on a kid for no reason at all.

Have your sister avoid your friends as much as possible....
Stand tall, be brave, defend your sister. If they dont like what you say...then you dont need them as friends.

Teach your sister to: Ignore the bully, Stand up for herself, not to bully back, not to show your feelings, and how to tell an adult.

good luck.