I've seen this happen so often with teens. I remember when I was that age, if one of the more popular girls had a crush on a guy, it seemed that many other girls would follow suit.
Sometimes friends emulate what we do because they want to be like us. That happens alot with teens as well as this is a time in their lives where they are really trying to identify with who they are and what they want to be.
On a personal note, if you are truly close friends, you may want to talk with her and tell her that you would like to pursue a potential relationship with this boy and why he interests you so. Ask her why she is interested in him and is it only because you are and that you prefer not to compete in the dating ring with her.
Do also tell her that she also has her unique personality that will win the heart of the right guy. Perhaps he has some nice friends or brothers? Maybe a double date would be fun. Remember, there will be many initial crushes in the life of a teen. Don't let that damage the friendship that you two have.
Also remember, in the end a relationship with a guy isn't just about the initial crush. The chemistry and caring for eachother is ultimately what will determine whether or not a guy and a gal become 'a couple'. This guy could be right for you. He could be right for her. Or, he might not really be compatable with either one of you.






