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Submitted 299 days ago...

Missy1990

Missy1990

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What should I do

When ever there is a guy that i like, one of my friends likes him too, and if there is even a chance i can get with them, she gets all mad at me because my chance is greater than she has. what should i do to tell her that i don't really care what she thinks but still not make her angry and hate me?

 
 
 
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Submitted 298 days ago...

grandmother

grandmother

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I've seen this happen so often with teens. I remember when I was that age, if one of the more popular girls had a crush on a guy, it seemed that many other girls would follow suit.

Sometimes friends emulate what we do because they want to be like us. That happens alot with teens as well as this is a time in their lives where they are really trying to identify with who they are and what they want to be.

On a personal note, if you are truly close friends, you may want to talk with her and tell her that you would like to pursue a potential relationship with this boy and why he interests you so. Ask her why she is interested in him and is it only because you are and that you prefer not to compete in the dating ring with her.

Do also tell her that she also has her unique personality that will win the heart of the right guy. Perhaps he has some nice friends or brothers? Maybe a double date would be fun. Remember, there will be many initial crushes in the life of a teen. Don't let that damage the friendship that you two have.

Also remember, in the end a relationship with a guy isn't just about the initial crush. The chemistry and caring for eachother is ultimately what will determine whether or not a guy and a gal become 'a couple'. This guy could be right for you. He could be right for her. Or, he might not really be compatable with either one of you.

 

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Submitted 292 days ago...

Missy1990

Missy1990

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But its not as easy as that, i cant just talk to her and well her personality is more of an angry one than nice.

 

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Submitted 292 days ago...

sidelko

sidelko

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It can be hard being with a friend who can get jealous that you might have a better shot at a guy that you both like.

if it is only one guy that you both like, then you should talk to her and let her know that you like him.

if it is with every guy you like and she also likes all those guys as well. it could be a major block in your friendship. at that point you have to ask what is more important, being able to go after the guys you like or hanging out with your friend who is jealous over every guy you like.

 

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Submitted 289 days ago...

tchan

tchan

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If she is truly ur friend she would be happy for you not mad at u and honestly it would be best to break off the friendship because if she is this way now chances are she always will be and u dont need a friend that is always trying to step in the way of your happiness

 

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Submitted 288 days ago...

Missy1990

Missy1990

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Well it seems like every guy that i like now she wants to get with this other guy that i know likes me and i like him too, so yeah and then she knew i liked one guy and she told him that i had a bf and i didnt and now she has him, she makes me angry

 
 

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